Sunday, February 10, 2008

Sub Zero in MI

Friday afternoon while I was at work, I had a curious encounter on the elevator. We have many contractors onsite who are from India. I stepped on the elevator and struck up a conversation with a young man. He asked how my drive to work had been. It really wasn't a bad drive (the usual ice, snow and wind) so I couldn't complain.

Evidently, he was not expecting that response. (Imagine a lilting Indian accent). "You people here are CRAZY! I mean it! You live here by CHOICE! You're crazy! Never, never would I choose to live here!" :-)

How do I explain the joy of hearing 200 birds snuttering in my blue spruce on a sub-zero winter day?
Or my search in the fall for just the right branch to lay by my birdfeeders? Or watching the wide variety of birds (cardinals, blue jays, woodpeckers, nuthatches, gold finches, house finches, grackles, juncos, starlings, mourning doves and our friendly neighborhood Coopers Hawk).

Or that first great spring day when you know the worst is over and the sun will shine again for MONTHS!

Guess I would miss these ever changing seasons!

Thursday, February 7, 2008

I Took A Deep Breath ...

.... when Bob came into our bedroom today and said: "Will you love me even though I just did something really stupid?"

Long story....last week he lost his wallet and called the bank and canceled his ATM/debt and credit card. (Of course, two hours later his found his wallet). That night, I'm at the store and try to use my credit card for text books ... declined. Ok, so I pull out my ATM card and use that....so much for having a month to pay for the books....again, no big deal. Call the bank the next day and find out our cards have the same number (argh!).

It takes 7 - 10 business days for replacement cards so for a week, Bob has been sporadically borrowing my ATM/debit card while he waits for his to come in the mail.

Today, the love of my life receives two new credit cards (one for him and one for me) and also his new ATM/debit card. He activates all three and then goes into his wallet, pulls out the debit card and proceeds to cut it up. The problem?? It was MY DEBIT CARD which he had borrowed again to buy something.

*Picture Marni's face turning to stone and eyes hardening to laser beams ....

(calming breath) I swear God is testing me. For many years now during Lent I try to do something which is extremely difficult for me. This year I decided to try to find the good in every situation which annoys me.

Yes, God definitely has a good sense of humor.

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Mother Nature



In Michigan, especially on the west side, we're used to snow....lots of snow. We have regular snow and then "lake effect" snow....that wonderful snow that comes from cold air hitting the warmer water off Lake Michigan.

We almost take a perverse pride in talking about how bad it gets and the conditions we drive in. This year is no different.

Last week, we spent our drives to and from work battling sub-zero temperatures, glazed ice and blowing winds and then thanks to this ever-changing weather this was followed by a few days of rain and sleet producing flood warns and ice dams.

Today, it's back to the frozen stuff. After I left church this morning (Ash Wednesday), my drive consisted of misting rain, pelting rain, sleet, pelting sleet, hail and then snow....gotta love it. Oh, I shouldn't forget the wind, too!

As I sit here, the wind is blowing and the snow is piling up. Too bad I have to work tomorrow ...it would be a great day for a book and hot chocolate! :-)

Monday, January 28, 2008

Am I a Masochist?

My daughter, Rachel, has been bugging me to update this blog....share some thoughts. Since the majority of my "down time" is spending studying.....here goes.

Have you ever started something and wondered "What in God's name am I doing !?"....

This phrase reverberates in my mind since I started my class, "Biblical Greek and Hebrew". Yes, some of us are gluttons for punishment!

Image working a full day and then sitting in class for three hours trying to wrap you brain around:

Εν αpχη nν ο Λόγος, και ο Λόγος nν προς τον Θεόν, και Θεος nν ο Λόγος ... which means:

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and God was the Word

That's Greek. Word order is similar, letters can be learned and is actually very EASY compared to HEBREW! (see the same passage from John below).

בראשית היה הדבר והדבר היה את האלהים ואלהים היה הדבר׃

Hebrew is read right to left and it's impossible to find any similarity to English. Originally when the languge was written but did not contain vowel sounds. Later little dots, dashes and other markers were added to help readers but they are not easy for me to pick up....must be these old eyes of mine.

Our professor continues to encourage us and I'm sure I will survive this 16 weeks. In fact, I've decided this is a very humbling experience for me. My classes normally easy and I've never had a challenge of this magnitude.

Hopefully, as I used to tell my children, this will be a 'character building' experience!

also, I'm sure the amount of Motrin I have purchased is helping the economy!

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

This Time of the Year..

...is especially hard for me. The gray skies reflect my mood and my patience with others is non-existent.

If I were to fill out a survey today...I would list sleeping as my hobby! If I'm not asleep I seem to be counting the hours until I can go back to sleep.

Living with depression for 30 years has helped me realize.......'this too shall pass'. Hopefully soon!

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Putting The World In Perspective


Italy: The Manzo family of Sicily
Food expenditure for one week: 214.36 Euros or $260.11

Germany: The Melander family of Bargteheide

Food expenditure for one week: 375.39 Euros or $500.07




United States: The Revis family of North Carolina
Food expenditure for one week $341.98
Mexico: The Casales family of Cuernavaca

Food expenditure for one week: 1,862.78 Mexican Pesos or $189.09
Poland: The Sobczynscy family of Konstancin-Jeziorna Food expenditure for one week: 582.48 Zlotys or $151.27



Ecuador: The Ayme family of Tingo
Food expenditure for one week: $31.55

Bhutan: The Namgay family of Shingkhey Village
Food expenditure for one week: 224.93 ngultrum or $5.03
Chad: The Aboubakar family of Breidjing Camp
Food expenditure for one week: 685 CFA Francs or $1.23

Friday, January 4, 2008

Pictures from GR

Christmas at the Rose house is always good for a few laughs. This year, Rachel received a loaf of bread. We convinced her Michael had accidentally given her present (a gift card) to the neighbor s and she received their bread. It wasn't until she sliced the bread that she found her card inside...needless to say SHE was not amused....WE, on the other hand, were VERY amused!


Poor Toad had to sit at the door and watch our deck and back yard as the birds were feeding one cold winter morning. She 'cackled' the entire time and was not happy when we ignored her. One particularly large mourning dove (middle left) taunted her for about 20 minutes.


Anyone else see Casper, the friendly ghost?